In this state of affairs, the only thing which remains in your mind is how to get your ex back and get it all going like it used to.
People try various things to get a word with their ex and in turn end up making things shoddier.
It is said that when somebody tries really hard to get things right, she ends up making things worse.
It is completely correct.
In extreme anxiety, one tends to make some serious mistakes, which finally push the ex further away.
So if you are one of those who are planning on getting your ex back at this very minute, there are three things you should keep in mind before you take any step.
Let me give you a short insight.
Contacting too soon should be avoided at all cost.
Do not make contact with your ex directly after you have broken up.
It is right that the shock is intolerable but trying to contact every now and then will openly depict desperation.
You must give him some time and gradually make a move when things are reasonably cooler.
Apologizing badly will also be a reason for a turnoff.
Do not shower him with phone calls or text messages showing regret.
Do not drop on your knees and shed tears about how sorry you are.
Pleading and weeping will only make you look weaker at spirit.
This can be a huge turn off.
Make an apology but at the right time and in the right way.
Do not stretch your cry sheet in front of your ex's friends or relatives.
This will make you look like a clown.
Trying to ask others to make your ex realize will only indicate that you are looking for empathy.
It's not a neat thing to do at all.
The above three errors will destroy even the slightest probability of your victory in getting your ex back.
However, apart from 'what not to do', you also must have a tangible plan on 'what to do'.
Make certain you have a detailed and coherent plan before you take the initial footstep.