It is a known fact that you both need to take equal steps to make sure that the marriage is taken care of.
If you get a slight hint of a divorce and would want to do something about it, just take into account the following - o The main thing you have to do in this case is to communicate.
To communicate well and also effectively is necessary to safeguard a marriage.
It so happens that a marriage that is about to break, suffers from a lot of miscommunication.
You need to take control of this and keep communicating well to your better half and see to it that your marriage is saved.
The key to a good marriage is communication.
With good communication eases a lot of problems and also provides solutions to a lot of problems as well.
o Next vital thing you have to do is to be open to change.
While solving problems of a marriage, often a lot of discussions, fights, quarrels, come up; you have got to be open to a lot of things, including changing many essential rules and protocols.
When problems are identified, they need to be solved, and this you can be sure if you are in for some change.
o Stop playing the blame game.
What most people do is they try to pass on the buck to someone else, when it comes to solving a problem.
It is so much easier for you to accept your mistake and take on responsibility for it too.
to take responsibility for your mistakes is a mature move and it does a lot to ease out rough ends in any relationship.
So if divorce is the only future you see for your relationship, I don't have to tell you, to consider these points and rethink your decision.
Of course both you and your partner need to be in for it; with disapproval from even one party, it is not worth taking it forward.
Divorce is not the only way to a problem in a marriage; it is the way for a couple that has just about no chemistry and bonding.